The other day, I was watching Dato Dr Fadhilah Kamsah on TV, discussing an interesting topic, teman sejati. It made me to think, I am so lucky I had one, teman sejati, a true friend. I had a lot of friends, every where and anywhere I've been through out my life. But she is special. She is nothing like me, a totally different person. She is every thing I am not. But the chemistry between us is so strong. And that made us complementing each other. Being different, and thinking differently, yet she sees me and understands me. She knows it when I'm down, or too excited. She knows what to do when I'm sick, or depressed. She knows exactly what I'd like to eat, and what to buy me. She knows what I like, and what I dont. She take me out shopping when ever I feel bad or unhappy...heheheh.... She is there, when I am at the deepest sorrow in my life. She lift up my spirit and support me in her own way. We shared so many things and moments together.. which most of them are the peak years of our life. Normally, she doesnt really show she really care for me.. hahahahah... but I know she do really care..and showing it in her own way. She shows me a lot of life, thought me a lot as well. She is part of my life, a very significant part I guess.
Moga penat lelahmu diterima oleh Allah s.w.t dalam membesar dan mendidik
anak-anak....amin...
"Suatu ketika, seorang anak bertanya kepada ibunya, “Ibu, mengapa ibu menangis?”
Ibunya menjawab, “Sebab ibu adalah perempuan, nak.” “Saya tak mengerti ibu,” kata si anak. Ibunya hanya tersenyum dan memeluknya erat. “Nak, kau memang tak akan mengerti…”
Kemudian si anak bertanya kepada ayahnya. “Ayah, mengapa ibu menangis?” “Ibumu menangis tanpa sebab yang jelas,” sang ayah menjawab. “Semua perempuan memang sering menangis tanpa alasan.”
Si anak membesar menjadi remaja, dan dia tetap terus bertanya-tanya, mengapa perempuan menangis? Hingga pada suatu malam, ia bermimpi dan bertanya kepada Tuhan, “Ya Allah, mengapa perempuan mudah menangis?” Dalam mimpinya ia merasa seolah mendengar jawapannya:
“Saat Ku ciptakan wanita, Aku membuatnya menjadi sangat utama. Kuciptakan bahunya, agar mampu menahan seluruh beban dunia dan isinya, walaupun juga bahu itu harus cukup nyaman dan lembut untuk menahan kepala bayi yang sedang tertidur.
“Kuberikan wanita kekuatan untuk dapat melahirkan bayi dari rahimnya, walau kerap berulangkali menerima cerca dari si bayi itu apabila ia telah membesar.
“Kuberikan keperkasaan yang akan membuatnya tetap bertahan, pantang menyerah saat semua orang sudah putus asa.
“Ku berikan kesabaran jiwa untuk merawat keluarganya walau dia sendiri letih, walau sakit, walau penat, tanpa berkeluh kesah.
“Kuberikan wanita perasaan peka dan kasih sayang untuk mencintai semua anaknya dalam kondisi dan situasi apapun. Walau acapkali anak-anaknya itu melukai perasaan dan hatinya. Perasaan ini pula yang akan memberikan kehangatan pada anak-anak yang mengantuk menahan lelap. Sentuhan inilah yang akan memberikan kenyamanan saat didakap dengan lembut olehnya.
“Kuberikan wanita kekuatan untuk membimbing suaminya melalui masa-masa sulit dan menjadi pelindung baginya. Sebab bukannya tulang rusuk yang melindungi setiap hati dan jantung agar tak terkoyak.
“Kuberikan kepadanya kebijaksanaan dan kemampuan untuk memberikan pengertian dan menyedarkan bahwa suami yang baik adalah yang tak pernah melukai isterinya. Walau seringkali pula kebijaksanaan itu akan menguji setiap kesetiaan yang diberikan kepada suami agar tetap berdiri sejajar, saling melengkapi dan saling menyayangi.
“Dan akhirnya, Kuberikan ia air mata, agar dapat mencurahkan perasaannya. Inilah yang khusus kepada wanita, agar dapat ia gunakan bila masa pun ia inginkan. Ini bukan kelemahan bagi wanita, kerana sebenarnya air mata ini adalah
“air mata kehidupan.”
zahraa learnt new stuff 2-3 days back.. , even having a fever.. she can hold her bottle herself, bringing it to her mouth. She can hold her toys, and also try to bring it to her mouth. She lifted both her legs swaying to the her side, trying to roll i guess..she kicks hard and bend her body when she wanted something or irritated. Just in a week, I am so happy with her. It is a mothers day gift for me, for my first mothers day. On this mothers day, I felt happy, grateful and eager looking forward for many more things to come.
Child's Age | Mastered Skills (most kids can do) | Emerging Skills (half of kids can do) | Advanced Skills (a few kids can do) |
| 1 month | • Lifts head when lying on tummy • Responds to sound • Stares at faces | • Follows objects briefly with eyes • Vocalizes: oohs and aahs • Can see black-and-white patterns | • Smiles, laughs • Holds head at 45-degree angle |
| 2 months | • Vocalizes: gurgles and coos • Follows objects across field of vision • Notices his hands • Holds head upfor short periods | • Smiles, laughs • Holds head at 45-degree angle • Makes smoother movements | • Holds head steady • Can bear weight on legs • Lifts head and shoulders when lying on tummy (mini-pushup) |
| 3 months | • Recognizes your face and scent • Holds head steady • Visually tracks moving objects | • Squeals, gurgles, coos • Blows bubbles • Recognizes your voice • Does mini-pushup | • Rolls over, from tummy to back • Turns toward loud sounds • Can bring hands together, bats at toys |
| 4 months | • Smiles, laughs • Can bear weight on legs • Coos when you talk to him | • Can grasp a toy • Rolls over, from tummy to back | • Imitates sounds: "baba," "dada" • Cuts first tooth • May be ready for solid foods |
| 5 months | • Distinguishes between bold colors • Plays with his hands and feet | • Recognizes own name • Turns toward new sounds • Rolls over in both directions | • Sits momentarily without support • Mouths objects • Separation anxiety may begin |
| 6 months | • Turns toward sounds and voices • Imitates sounds • Rolls over in both directions | • Is ready for solid foods • Sits without support • Mouths objects • Passes objectsfrom hand to hand | • Lunges forward or starts crawling • Jabbers or combines syllables • Drags objects toward himself |
Zahraa is 3 months today!!!!! Yes, she did had little fever few days ago, but at the same time she did manage to do few new things.. all at once ...
1. She put her legs together and raised them high up
2. She claps both her hands together
3. She try to hold and grabs things and toys
4. She is reaching for the dangling toys at her playgym (after staring at them for 5 days)
5. She cry less
6. ITs easier to put her to sleep nowadays
I'll upload the videos later okay... Yeah.. happy 3 months Zahraa
Its not just a fever at all... actually it is roseola infantum. It looks like measles, but without cough and very high fever. Zahraa had small red spots on her skins after the 4th day of having fever. She had all the simptom, beginning from her diarhea and then fever. The actual thing appears later. So now, I am at home with Zahraa..her nursery wouldnt allow her to come, even the doctor said it is not contagious. For now, there's some medicine she had to take, paracetamol and something to take away the itchiness. I had to put calamine lotion on her body as well. It was caused by a virus and according to Dr Hasanah ( Zahraa's paed) the virus would die on its own and no antibiotic is required.. it sounds rare, this roseola, but it is common actually. It is always be mistaken with measles.
Definition of Roseola infantum
Roseola infantum: Roseola infantum is another name for roseola, also formally called roseola infantilis. The following is a brief rundown on roseola:
Cause: Roseola is caused by a virus called human herpesvirus 6 (HHV-6) and, possibly, human herpesvirus 7 (HHV-7).
Age range: Roseola is most common in children 6 months to 24 months of age.
Spread: Roseola is spread from person to person, but it is not known how. Roseola is not very contagious.
Initial symptoms: These include a high fever that lasts for 3 to 5 days, runny nose, irritability, eyelid swelling, and tiredness.
The rash: When the fever disappears, a rash appears. The rash is mainly on the face and body.
Course: The rash lasts for about 24 to 48 hours. Roseola usually goes away without any treatment.
Complications of roseola are rare.
Seeing the doctor: A child with fever and rash should be excluded from child care until seen by a physician.
Return to child care: A child with rash and no fever may return to child care.
Because the rash appears so suddenly (right after the fever dramatically departs), the disease is also sometimes called exanthem subitum.
However, some other have more ideas about roseola infantum
http://www.medicinenet.com/roseola/article.htm
http://www.emedicine.com/derm/topic378.htm
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000968.htm
http://www.drgreene.com/21_1173.html
Nice Bjorn! read more
on suprise!!!!